Relationship help?

I've stopped caring about dating ever since my girlfriend left me...for another girl.

SlaytanicPOWER wrote:

I just ended a relationship of 2 years just the other day.

It really sucked, full of drama, stress, and disappointment.

Just wasn't ready to commit entirely, and still need the freedom to explore other alternatives.

Sorry to hear that buddy, that's got to be a difficult decision to make. Still, hopefully it'll lead to greener pastures of some degree.

Schbopo wrote:

I've stopped caring about dating ever since my girlfriend left me...for another girl.

You're 15/16 (one of those, right?), Schoobidoo. You'll get over it, my friend!

Schbopo wrote:

I've stopped caring about dating ever since my girlfriend left me...for another girl.

Wow... you made her switch teams.

TheGooch wrote:

but i want sex now not when im older!

I remember few years ago I was going through a dry spell and I was complaining and bitching about it and I tell you it will make the situation worse and worse also I was under alot of stress at the time which is like a repelent against women.
I discovered the best solution to your problem is to put it on hold for the time being and go to the gym frequently and NO it's got nothing to do with gaining mucsles, showing off your six pack and being a metrosexual pansie. The main reason is that it will clear out your mind and in a period of time you'll go through an upward spiral in other words it will stimulate your intuition, you'll feel more optomistic about the situation and chatting up chicks will become easier to the point it will become a piece of piss. Also go for runs reguarly as well. In a way going to the gym will increase your chances of getting poontang. Trust me you'll get results good luck man

fingers wrote:

In a way going to the gym will increase your chances of getting poontang.

I almost spit out my coffee after reading that...

detuned wrote:

fingers wrote:

In a way going to the gym will increase your chances of getting poontang.

I almost spit out my coffee after reading that...

say what you like about it mate I couldn't care less. But it is true if you play your cards right

fingers wrote:

detuned wrote:

fingers wrote:

In a way going to the gym will increase your chances of getting poontang.

I almost spit out my coffee after reading that...

say what you like about it mate I couldn't care less. But it is true if you play your cards right

It was the sentence that I found funny, not the part about working out.

detuned wrote:

fingers wrote:

detuned wrote:

fingers wrote:

In a way going to the gym will increase your chances of getting poontang.

I almost spit out my coffee after reading that...

say what you like about it mate I couldn't care less. But it is true if you play your cards right

It was the sentence that I found funny, not the part about working out.

Fair Enough.

So I have been speaking with someone for about a month now and we really enjoy eachother and like eachother as well. There is one major problem. She is married. I respect whatever decision it is she makes regarding this factor. We recently spoke about our feelings for one another and they are both mutual.

I really like this person and she feels the same. Her marriage isn't the best, but she also wants what is best for her daughter. Her friends have told her to do what she wants and to do what makes her happy and that is being around me.

I am going to wait it out and see where it goes. Although I know what I am going to do. What would you guys do in this situation? She is below..

Bro, she's married.......run away and let it be. You'll be disappointed in the end and I don't think this is a healthy situation, specially since she has a child and she's still with her husband.

My brother was in the same situation several years ago.

Bottom line...he had to move because the husband found out and threatened to kill him.

Not worth it bro IMO.

Take it from a guy who made a reputation for nailing married women, they are not worth it. All the ones I've been with became major psychos and what's worse it's nothing but a guilt trip especially after the moneyshots.

I agree with all you guys but Im very patient and in reality Id gladly wait for this one. Im going to wait it out and see where it goes. Im not going to force anything and I will respect whatever she makes.

MetalRob331 wrote:

I agree with all you guys but Im very patient and in reality Id gladly wait for this one. Im going to wait it out and see where it goes. Im not going to force anything and I will respect whatever she makes.

You just might wait a loooong time and end up bitter at the fact that she claims to care for you but goes home and sleeps next to someone else.

akeldama wrote:

MetalRob331 wrote:

I agree with all you guys but Im very patient and in reality Id gladly wait for this one. Im going to wait it out and see where it goes. Im not going to force anything and I will respect whatever she makes.

You just might wait a loooong time and end up bitter at the fact that she claims to care for you but goes home and sleeps next to someone else.

I really have a great time with her and thats all that matters right now. I understand what you mean and Im in no rush to find a relationship, so I can be as patient as need be. If she outright tells me she is happy and is willing to work it out with her hubby I will respect that as well and we will still be amazing friends.

Metalrob, what happened to that other girl man?

Dude, did you ask for her permission before posting that picture? Nothing wrong with the picture itself, but you're basically saying she's cheating on her husband and now you just posted her picture. I know the chances of her (or the husband) ever coming here to see, but you never know about the internet... once it's out there, it's never gone.

Lari wrote:

Dude, did you ask for her permission before posting that picture? Nothing wrong with the picture itself, but you're basically saying she's cheating on her husband and now you just posted her picture. I know the chances of her (or the husband) ever coming here to see, but you never know about the internet... once it's out there, it's never gone.

Thats a good point...yikes metalrob!

Lari wrote:

Dude, did you ask for her permission before posting that picture? Nothing wrong with the picture itself, but you're basically saying she's cheating on her husband and now you just posted her picture. I know the chances of her (or the husband) ever coming here to see, but you never know about the internet... once it's out there, it's never gone.

We are just great friends who want more and thats it (I hope thats not cheating). Thanks for reminding me about the pic, I don't know what I was thinking.

Stender me and Phio are just friends, she wants to be more then that but I don't have the same feelings for her as I do this one. We are very tight and I broke her heart when i told her all I wanted was to be friends. It is a cruel world I know but I had to tell her so she can move on and maybe find someone.

MetalRob331 wrote:

Lari wrote:

Dude, did you ask for her permission before posting that picture? Nothing wrong with the picture itself, but you're basically saying she's cheating on her husband and now you just posted her picture. I know the chances of her (or the husband) ever coming here to see, but you never know about the internet... once it's out there, it's never gone.

We are just great friends who want more and thats it (I hope thats not cheating). Thanks for reminding me about the pic, I don't know what I was thinking.

Stender me and Phio are just friends, she wants to be more then that but I don't have the same feelings for her as I do this one. We are very tight and I broke her heart when i told her all I wanted was to be friends. It is a cruel world I know but I had to tell her so she can move on and maybe find someone.

Geez...I dont know how you could pass her up bro....she was pretty plus she liked your songs!

MetalRob331 wrote:

Lari wrote:

Dude, did you ask for her permission before posting that picture? Nothing wrong with the picture itself, but you're basically saying she's cheating on her husband and now you just posted her picture. I know the chances of her (or the husband) ever coming here to see, but you never know about the internet... once it's out there, it's never gone.

We are just great friends who want more and thats it (I hope thats not cheating). Thanks for reminding me about the pic, I don't know what I was thinking.

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Borderline emotional affair and that can be just as if not more damaging than one of a sexual nature.

My question - if she is willing to enter into an emotional relationship with you (which it appears you have an emotional affair right now), how do you know that she won't do that same thing to you?

Love, I have concluded, is a phenomena that occurs between two people with good chemistry and mindsets. The concept of it causes rational people to behave illogically, which then runs course to two possible options:

- A great ending
- A horrible emotional ending

It is often experienced, and more often than not...perceived but not actually occurring.

I hope to never experience this force or even the hint of it ever again; or to be attached on an emotional level. This exhibition of pure human feeling which lends itself to be the scourge on many people.

I hate how people want the Fairy tale, and then when they see the physical cold reality of what results... they become disgusted. Females in particular, seek the fairy tale and flee upon seeing the reality of their romanticized perception of 'Love".

Sorry, I'm pretty bitter about the opposite sex at this point.

If i could, I would extinguish ALL human emotion from myself, be as cold and calculated as Spock, Data, a Terminator, etc.

SlaytanicPOWER wrote:

Love, I have concluded, is a phenomena that occurs between two people with good chemistry and mindsets. The concept of it causes rational people to behave illogically, which then runs course to two possible options:

- A great ending
- A horrible emotional ending

I hope to never experience this force or even the hint of it ever again; or to be attached on an emotional level. This exhibition of pure human feeling which lends itself to be the scourge on many people.

I hate how people want the Fairy tale, and then when they see the physical cold reality of what results... they become disgusted. Females in particular, seek the fairy tale and flee upon seeing the reality of their romanticized perception of 'Love".

Sorry, I'm pretty bitter about the opposite sex at this point.

If i could, I would extinguish ALL human emotion from myself, be as cold and calculated as Spock, Data, a Terminator, etc.

I hear ya. I wouldn't want to be Data or anything like that though. Emotions are all well and good, it's just a fairly large load of them totally suck.

What is so F*CKING "ugly" about this??





The reality made manifest into one picture and the negative connotations that result...

God bless Hollywood, the mass brainwasher of the American youth.