Please Pray for me and or Keep me in your thoughts....

Thank you everybody for all the well wishes, its very touching

your in my thoughts addy.

Addy wrote:

Thank you everybody for all the well wishes, its very touching

I have to say I am really impressed by everyone's posts in this thread.

Addy is one of my best online friends and I gotta admit when he started this thread, I wasn't sure what kind of response to expect but you people have come through in spades. No wonder I enjoy posting here so much...

wow, this totally sucks. sorry to hear about this. you'll eventually move on, so don't worry about it too much. Listen to Dio

I am so sorry to hear that Addy. I hope that this awful experience builds your character and strengthens your relationships with family, friends and God.

I will definitely be praying for you bro.Hang in there and remember you have friends here if you ever need to talk.

Wow AD! Sorry to hear that bro. I pray everything works out in the end.

Man - sorry to hear about your situation!!!!! I pray everything works out in the end!!!

I'll be praying for you.

To Addy and MM, hang in there guys and stay strong.

Many years back I was essentially left at the altar. About destroyed me. Fortunately I had friends and family who I could count on to get me through those rough times. I actually am able to laugh about it all now.

My best advice once everything settles down and the pain isn't so fresh, is to take all the hurtful energy and pour it into something you've always wanted to do or try. Take the time to do something for yourself that benefits and rewards YOU. For me, it was finally traveling out west. And I ended up never leaving.

But for now, only good wishes to see you both through the hurt.

It is nice to know there are others who have also possibly dealt with logic-defying pathological liar types. I got a ways to go to be ok/normal too. And here I thought American girls were bad.

jstate wrote:

To Addy and MM, hang in there guys and stay strong.

Many years back I was essentially left at the altar. About destroyed me. Fortunately I had friends and family who I could count on to get me through those rough times. I actually am able to laugh about it all now.

My best advice once everything settles down and the pain isn't so fresh, is to take all the hurtful energy and pour it into something you've always wanted to do or try. Take the time to do something for yourself that benefits and rewards YOU. For me, it was finally traveling out west. And I ended up never leaving.

But for now, only good wishes to see you both through the hurt.

That's actually great advice IMO.

My last (and FINAL) breakup caused me to go skydiving. The rush from doing that really got me over the hump.

BTW Addy, that happened in New Haven so if you want to try it, let me know and I'll give you the name of the company I used.

I am so sorry Addy. I can totally relate on your feelings What has been helping me a lot is my faith. I am catholic so I pray the holy rosary every day. Tomorrow I will dedicate my rosary to you, and ask God gives you the strength you need right now.

*HUG*

I cant say it enough to all the outpouring of support Thank you a million times thank you so much you all are a credit to online communities everywhere.

I have good days and bad days well I shouldnt say that i have good moments and bad moments. I really do believe its because of all the love and prayers Ive been getting that is mostly keeping me together. I dont think Id do something as extreme as Skydiving but, I have been thinking bout things ive always wanted to do.

Again I cannot say thank you enough to everybody here, It really really warms my heart

I was divorced in 2003, and I think I've finally got back on my feet, so it can be done. If I could do it over I would do what you are doing and re-locate and start fresh. I think getting back to a place that you know will help a lot. You have my best wishes.

Addy, seriously, go skydiving. You're gonna feel great afterwards.

if anything my e-mail is powermacho@hotmail.com. Keep God by your side and in the end everything will turn out good.

Sorry to hear about this, Addy. Hang in there, bro.

Sorry that you guys are hurting so much right now. It must be tough having to be strong and hold down a job with that kind of pain. Be good to yourself.

I admit it hasnt been easy I do alot of driving in between service calls and sometimes during that drive is when I break down

However I do have some good news

My wife and I after long long long talks have decided to stay together and make it work, I know this is nothing short of a miricle and I want to thank EACH and EVERY ONE here who has given me nothing but love and support, the response I have gotten here has been very overwhelming in a very good way.

Great news addy! I am very very happy for you and your wife!

Congrats, man! That's AWESOME news!

great news metal brutha!!!! I wish you and your wife the best of luck.

Thanks, I feel much much lighter and even wiser for it

Good to hear that dude. Good luck!